{"id":3222,"date":"2024-05-31T11:44:35","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T11:44:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/?p=3222"},"modified":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","slug":"how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Masturbation Tips: How To Spice Up Solo Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1396&#8243;][wbcr_php_snippet id=&#8221;765&#8243;]\t\t<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1345\" height=\"896\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image2-1.png\" alt=\"woman-fingering-juicy-apple\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><figcaption>credit: unsplash.com\/@deonblack<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\t\t\tTop posts<br \/>\n\t\t[tptn_list heading=0][wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1386&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s so much emphasis on sex with others \u2013 how to please your partner, new positions to try, how to keep it interesting with your long term partner. But what about the sex you\u2019re having solely with yourself?<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>May is National Masturbation Month, a whole month dedicated to self service and how to have sex with yourself. Nearly everyone is doing it yet barely anyone is talking about how to develop that healthy, pleasurable relationship with yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Keep reading for great masturbation tips on a variety of toys, positions and sexy ways to enjoy yourself. <\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-white ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Why_solo_sex_and_masturbation_are_a_necessity\" >Why solo sex and masturbation are a necessity<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Having_sex_with_yourself_is_about_solo_pleasure\" >Having sex with yourself is about solo pleasure<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#How_to_spice_up_solo_sex\" >How to spice up solo sex<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#1_Romance_yourself\" >1. Romance yourself<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#2_Have_fun_with_solo_foreplay\" >2. Have fun with solo foreplay<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#3_Try_different_solo_sex_positions\" >3. Try different solo sex positions<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#4_Find_the_best_solo_sex_toys_for_you\" >4. Find the best solo sex toys for you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#5_Experiment_with_different_lubes\" >5. Experiment with different lubes<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Spicing_up_solo_sex_with_others\" >Spicing up solo sex with others<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Try_sexting_as_foreplay\" >Try sexting as foreplay<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Use_a_cam_site_for_mutual_masturbation\" >Use a cam site for mutual masturbation<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Masturbation_tips_to_spice_up_short_sessions\" >Masturbation tips to spice up short sessions<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#1_Try_different_strokes_and_speeds\" >1. Try different strokes and speeds<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#2_Learn_what_gives_you_multiple_orgasms\" >2. Learn what gives you multiple orgasms<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#3_Use_a_mirror_to_watch_yourself\" >3. Use a mirror to watch yourself<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#4_Shake_up_your_masturbation_location\" >4. Shake up your masturbation location<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-spice-up-solo-sex-tips\/#Remember_Practicing_sex_solo_is_an_act_of_self-care\" >Remember: Practicing sex solo is an act of self-care<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_solo_sex_and_masturbation_are_a_necessity\"><\/span>Why solo sex and masturbation are a necessity<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image3-1.png\" alt=\"Woman-in-bed-wearing-t-shirt-underwear\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">There is so much shame around sex to begin with, that self-pleasure and the development of it tends to be stifled or overlooked. According to the <a style=\"text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/ca.style.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/survey-reveals-masturbation-habits-american-235431509.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAELaEZ_0pvh3dSNd3RSzZLBh2YquoBsaF9pSYEuCM6XhabfFguW0pS2mVwGWoRALGWcHs4MhpVTXBF8g0cCMh8ach1bNHpvvW0micgre2y5tERWXx2CO-DPGiMJPm095kd20xqmKAt_rYA2gwjG-kdBZgwiAt7CqwyN8WsT4DQ9e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">world\u2019s largest survey on masturbation, 55 percent of people never talk about it. <\/a>You may be doing it, but are you exploring it? It\u2019s time to do more than simply get it done.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Self care can include a variety of ways to love or show yourself care. Masturbation falls under that umbrella. Knowing how you and your body like to be romanced and pleasured does not and should not only come from others we choose to share ourselves with. Indulging in yourself with solo sex enables you to establish not only expectations of how you want to be treated, but it allows exploration on your own time and in your own comfort zone without the added pressure of pleasing someone else or considering their feelings.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Having_sex_with_yourself_is_about_solo_pleasure\"><\/span>Having sex with yourself is about solo pleasure<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>By definition, masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals, typically to the point of orgasm. However, solo sex should and can be much more than rubbing one out until you cum, much like sex with others is so much more than getting in and out. Knowing how to spice up solo sex is just the tip, actually indulging in it is the fun part.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_spice_up_solo_sex\"><\/span>How to spice up solo sex<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image4-1.png\" alt=\"woman-in-red-lingerie-in-bed-solo-with-flowers\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Monotony is not something you should settle for in your sex life \u2013 with others or alone. For that reason, we\u2019re going to walk you through solo sex tips to ensure you\u2019ll always know how to keep things exciting when you have some sexy time to yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Romance_yourself\"><\/span>1. Romance yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Romancing yourself is simply caring for and nurturing yourself, and when it comes to sex solo, it\u2019s about doing it in a very sexy way. This can look like a nice bath with candles, setting the mood with good lighting and desired music, and really taking care of your body with scented body oil or a little self massage. It\u2019s about treating yourself in both sexual and non-sexual ways.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Have_fun_with_solo_foreplay\"><\/span>2. Have fun with solo foreplay<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Foreplay doesn\u2019t need to be with another person, nor does it need to be physical. Perhaps it\u2019s time to explore a different genre of porn or different storyline, but you can also stray away from your typical medium, explore your desires and turn yourself on. Consider just pictures, audio erotica, erotic novels or you can even venture into old sexting convos and nudes exchanges for new ways for how to spice up masturbation.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Try_different_solo_sex_positions\"><\/span>3. Try different solo sex positions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">It can be easy to fall into a routine with someone, so you know how easy it can be to simply pleasure yourself laying flat on your back. Here are a variety of solo sex positions to try when learning how to spice up masturbation sessions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b id=\"docs-internal-guid-19bb3d58-7fff-2188-3156-77d47ff0063b\" style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Positions for women: For women, you can switch from your back to kneeling or doggy style position or you can be on your side like a solo spoon. Pillows are great to prop up under your butt or adjust your body slightly in each position.<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Positions for men: Men can try standing upright or bent over, also in doggy style, sitting upright in different chairs or on the couch. You can also get in a solo spoon position and rub one out.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Find_the_best_solo_sex_toys_for_you\"><\/span>4. Find the best solo sex toys for you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Different sex toys can be fun too. The best solo sex toys offer a variety of sensations to make sure your masturbation sessions don\u2019t get monotonous.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">For women, you can look to classic vibrators for clitoral stimulation, dildos for vaginal and anal penetration or clit-sucking vibrators that still offer a variety of cadences in the vibrations but a different sensation on the clit.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">For men, sex toys for masturbation include sleeves, cock rings and dildos for anal penetration, and a vibrator is always going to add a little spice to the session.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Experiment_with_different_lubes\"><\/span>5. Experiment with different lubes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">One of the best parts about solo pleasure is the ability to try out new things without worrying about how someone else feels about it. It\u2019s a great opportunity to experiment with new lubes like the examples below.\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul style=\"margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0; padding-inline-start: 48px;\">\n<li>Water-based lubes are great for self-gratification because they\u2019re the easiest to clean up and they\u2019re the easiest on toys.<\/li>\n<li>\nSilicone-based lubes last longer, are good for sensitive skin but can deteriorate toys over time.<\/li>\n<li>\nOil-based lubes can keep things slick, sometimes double as a massage oil, but are more likely to stain sheets and clothing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Spicing_up_solo_sex_with_others\"><\/span>Spicing up solo sex with others<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image5-1.png\" alt=\"Woman-lying-in-bed-sexting-on-phone\" width=\"1280\" height=\"853\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Just because you\u2019re partnered or regularly sleeping with someone doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t indulge in a little self-gratification on your own time alone. However, you can involve them while having sex solo if you don\u2019t live together or not together in the moment.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Try_sexting_as_foreplay\"><\/span>Try sexting as foreplay<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Whether it\u2019s a sexy text exchange about desires and what you want to do to each other, sending nudes or videos can definitely make your self-pleasure more exciting. (These <a style=\"text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sexting tips<\/a> can take you a long way.) It can also be part of your own foreplay to get your space sexy to record something special for a partner. And a huge bonus: you\u2019ll have great material to revisit whenever you need a little self-pleasure on your own time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Use_a_cam_site_for_mutual_masturbation\"><\/span>Use a cam site for mutual masturbation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Just because you\u2019re not sleeping with anyone else doesn\u2019t mean you need to masturbate alone. How, you ask? A cam site is the perfect opportunity to spice up your solo sex and masturbate with someone else.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This is a great way to safely explore kinds and interests alone and to try with others in the future. You can also make it a regular occurrence in your masturbation routine by trying out a variety of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/how-to-role-play-sex-ideas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sex roleplay ideas<\/a> and different cammers with each session. The options and new scenarios are truly endless on a cam site. \t\t<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Masturbation_tips_to_spice_up_short_sessions\"><\/span>Masturbation tips to spice up short sessions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image1-1.png\" alt=\"woman-fingering-orange-fruit\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nAlthough masturbation is typically characterized by the act of getting yourself off, it is so much more than that. There are plenty of ways to spice up your masturbation that include indulgence and working on your sexuality repertoire. And, exploration can still exist in short sessions, because let\u2019s be real \u2013 there are plenty of quickies to spread these masturbation tips throughout to keep it interesting.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Try_different_strokes_and_speeds\"><\/span>1. Try different strokes and speeds<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">If you always use a toy, try your hand or a different toy. If you always use your hand, try a toy. You can use two toys at the same time \u2013 one for penetration and another for vibration. You can also switch hands and have an entirely new experience.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Changing your strokes and speeds \u2013 and even the grip for those with a penis \u2013 can help you understand your body more, and introduce these ways to pleasure yourself to a partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Learn_what_gives_you_multiple_orgasms\"><\/span>2. Learn what gives you multiple orgasms<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Orgasms and pleasure feels good and should be fun. A great leisurely way to lean into solo sex is to explore how many different ways you can make yourself cum. Develop your own catalog of ways to get off by trying to give yourself multiple orgasms. When it\u2019s time to have sex with another person, you\u2019ll be bringing so much to the bedroom.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Use_a_mirror_to_watch_yourself\"><\/span>3. Use a mirror to watch yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">Another great way to develop your self-love through masturbation is to watch yourself. Observing yourself experiencing pleasure without judgment is the fast track to self-acceptance and raising your standards of how others treat you, your body and your pleasure.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">You can try with a hand mirror on the bed, move it into the bathroom for the bathroom mirror or really get comfortable by putting a chair in front of your full-length mirror and get a great view of yourself. Additionally, you can also record yourself and play it back.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 16pt; margin-bottom: 4pt;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Shake_up_your_masturbation_location\"><\/span>4. Shake up your masturbation location<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;\">It\u2019s very easy to get stuck in a rut of rubbing one out laying on your back in bed \u2013 it does the job. 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