{"id":3029,"date":"2024-02-02T17:12:42","date_gmt":"2024-02-02T17:12:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/?p=3029"},"modified":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","slug":"sexting-guide-how-to-sext","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/","title":{"rendered":"Foolproof Sexting Guide: How to Sext for Naughty Fun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1396&#8243;][wbcr_php_snippet id=&#8221;765&#8243;]<br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"911\" height=\"681\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image5.png\" alt=\"cheerful-women-texting-on-phone-smiling-in-bed\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><br \/>\n\t\t\tTop posts<br \/>\n\t\t[tptn_list heading=0][wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1386&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>While having sex and being intimate with someone can be the pinnacle of pleasure, talking or texting about the sex you and a partner are going to have is a very close runner up. Sexting is the digital version of sex when the real thing just can\u2019t happen, and this guide to sexting can really round out a fuller, hotter sex life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Much like any other form of or act within sex, sexting requires a mutual understanding and connection. Knowing the unwritten rules and major do\u2019s and don\u2019ts can lend for a better in-person experience whether it\u2019s someone you\u2019ve been dating long term or just started seeing.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Before we talk about how to sext, what is it exactly?<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-white ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#First%E2%80%A6_what_is_sexting\" >First\u2026 what is sexting?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#Why_learning_how_to_sext_is_a_great_skill\" >Why learning how to sext is a great skill<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#How_to_start_sexting_and_spice_things_up\" >How to start sexting and spice things up<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#1_Read_the_metaphorical_room\" >1. Read the metaphorical room\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#2_Make_consent_sexy_for_nudes\" >2. Make consent sexy for nudes<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#3_Learn_what_types_of_sexting_turns_them_on\" >3. Learn what types of sexting turns them on\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#4_Make_sexting_an_exciting_game\" >4. Make sexting an exciting game\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#Dos_and_donts_The_unwritten_rules_of_sexting\" >Do\u2019s and don\u2019ts: The unwritten rules of sexting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#Cheat_sheet_for_sexting_emojis\" >Cheat sheet for sexting emojis<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#General_guidelines_for_sexting_images\" >General guidelines for sexting images<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#Sexting_examples_for_naughty_inspiration\" >Sexting examples for naughty inspiration<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#Sexting_tips_to_keep_it_exciting\" >Sexting tips to keep it exciting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/sexting-guide-how-to-sext\/#A_guide_to_sexting_is_just_the_start\" >A guide to sexting is just the start<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"First%E2%80%A6_what_is_sexting\"><\/span>First\u2026 what is sexting?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image7.png\" alt=\"woman-sexting-on-phone\" width=\"912\" height=\"674\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sexting is the exchange of sexually explicit messages, images, videos or emojis between individuals typically through their phone or some sort of direct messaging chat. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age\/202303\/the-impact-of-sexting-on-relationships-and-mental#_edn3\">A 2023 study collected sexting data from 2,160 college students<\/a> found that 76.6% had engaged in some form of sexting, and most of the sexting was consensual and reciprocal.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s incredibly common because when it is consensual and reciprocal, it\u2019s fun, naughty, can forge greater intimacy, explore fantasy and act as a touch-free foreplay. It\u2019s R (or X) rated flirting.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_learning_how_to_sext_is_a_great_skill\"><\/span>Why learning how to sext is a great skill<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image1.jpg\" alt=\"woman-sexting-while-laying-in-bed\" width=\"1999\" height=\"1333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Learning how to sext is a great skill because in order to be good at it, you really just need to be a dialed in and charismatic partner in any sort of relationship dynamic \u2013 long term partner to no strings attached lover. Knowing how to sext only benefits you and your partner to be able to read each other, communicate better and be vulnerable within the context of the relationship. As much as these are beneficial to the relationship itself, they also will make you an excellent sexter and better in bed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So long as sexting is done consensually, there are fun benefits. Sexting provides an avenue for exploring and sharing sexual fantasies in a safe, slower format than in-person. It allows individuals to communicate their desires and preferences and hopefully enhance not only their physical sex, but their mental and emotional connection, sense of intimacy and confidence within the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a great way to supplement intimacy and sex when you can\u2019t physically have it, whether that\u2019s because you\u2019re in different places, don\u2019t have the time or for other health-related reasons.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sexting can add an element of excitement and novelty to a relationship. It can serve as a way to keep the romantic and sexual aspects of the relationship fresh and exciting.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_start_sexting_and_spice_things_up\"><\/span>How to start sexting and spice things up<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image3.png\" alt=\"woman-taking-a-selfie-for-partner-on-phone\" width=\"1075\" height=\"681\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While sexting requires your own creativity and understanding of the connection with the person you\u2019re messaging with, there\u2019s a basic framework to establish the foundation you need to ensure sexting is natural, fun and worthwhile for all parties.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In order to know how to start sexting you\u2019ll need to be able to read the metaphorical room, employ consent (and keep it sexy), learn their turn ons by listening and keep it exciting. Keep reading this sexting guide to learn the tricks to find your own voice and up the heat in your text thread.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Read_the_metaphorical_room\"><\/span>1. Read the metaphorical room\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>A good place to start is complementing the person you&#8217;re texting and hope to turn to sexting to see how they respond. However, this requires warming up and not just talking about what hole you want to fill. Much like sex, sexting requires a bit of verbal foreplay and a lot of reading cues. Paying a compliment on something they did or are good at in bed is a great place to start. If they respond with shame, embarrassment or avoidance, pump the breaks. If they respond with a compliment, saying they want to do it again or more, you can inch forward.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Being more forward can look like sharing what you want to do to them, the pleasure you want to give them or something about how desirable they looked. Focus on how you and your body felt towards them rather than simply what they look like, and pay close attention to how they respond. Also much like sex, if it isn\u2019t an enthusiastic yes and participation in sexting with you, it\u2019s a no.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Make_consent_sexy_for_nudes\"><\/span>2. Make consent sexy for nudes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Under no circumstances should you send an unsolicited nude. There needs to be some kind of check in or firm understanding that your recipient wants to see whatever it is you want to send, and since we\u2019re talking about sexting, it should be sexy. \u201cI want to send you a pic of my dick,\u201d isn\u2019t going to work here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This can look something like, \u201cCan I show you how hard you make me?\u201d Or, \u201cdo you want to see how much you turn me on?\u201d By asking questions like this, you can navigate consent and get to know what they like or want to say.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In terms of asking, you can use phrases like \u201cshow me\u201d or \u201cI wish I could see right now,\u201d to indicate that you\u2019d like to receive nudes. This is you volunteering your consent.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Learn_what_types_of_sexting_turns_them_on\"><\/span>3. Learn what types of sexting turns them on\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>While this is part of reading \u201cthe room\u201d and your partner, there\u2019s a variety of ways to learn. The biggest is paying attention to how they respond. You can also lead with vulnerability, share what you like about it and why it turns you on and follow up with asking them to share the same.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Make_sexting_an_exciting_game\"><\/span>4. Make sexting an exciting game\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Much like communication between two people that are intimately involved, sexting becomes your own language. Whether you consistently start off with the glancing-eyes emojis or send an image with iPhone invisible ink feature, remember to switch it up and center it on how much desire you have for the other person.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dos_and_donts_The_unwritten_rules_of_sexting\"><\/span>Do\u2019s and don\u2019ts: The unwritten rules of sexting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image6.png\" alt=\"man-texting-partner-mobile-phone-on-bed\" width=\"1015\" height=\"678\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to get excited and move quickly when sharing intimate texts with your partner, so here are some sexting do\u2019s and don\u2019ts to help make it more than just a one time thing.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b>Do\u2019s:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do lead with curiosity about your partner\u2019s desires.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do listen and pay attention to your partner\u2019s comfort.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do always check in or for consent before sending a nude. (You never know where someone is when they\u2019re going to open your pic.)<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do start slow and warm up like foreplay.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do always respect the other person\u2019s boundaries.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do always be honest about your boundaries.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do offer consent clearly.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Do share your own fantasies and desires.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Don\u2019t share unsolicited dick pics.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Don\u2019t share your private sexts with others.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Don\u2019t sext at your job. (What if your boss sees? Yikes!)<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Don\u2019t sext someone you don\u2019t know well or how they\u2019ll receive it.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Don\u2019t leave someone hanging.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cheat_sheet_for_sexting_emojis\"><\/span>Cheat sheet for sexting emojis<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Emojis can be a subtle, fun way to be suggestive while sexting without spelling it out (even though sometimes spelling it out is hot too). Here\u2019s a few and how to use them:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<pre>\ud83d\udc45 The \u201ctongue out\u201d emoji is perfect for letting their imagination run wild about how you want to lick them.\u00a0<\/pre>\n<p>\ud83c\udf7e The \u201cpop champagne\u201d emoji could be used to insinuate you\u2019re about to bust a nut, blow your load or really just so turned on you\u2019re about to explode.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udca6 The \u201cwater drops\u201d emoji can be used like a splash, to say you\u2019re so wet, to say you\u2019re dripping.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\ud83c\udf46 The \u201ceggplant\u201d emoji is all about the dick. Drop it in when you want her to know you\u2019re big and hard.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\ud83c\udf51 The \u201cpeach\u201d emoji represents a nice juicy ass.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\ud83e\udd68 The \u201cpretzel\u201d emoji might be unexpected, but the best time to use that is to say you want to fold them up like a pretzel and fuck.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"General_guidelines_for_sexting_images\"><\/span>General guidelines for sexting images<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image4.png\" alt=\"woman-in-white-button-up-shirt-lying-on-bed-sexting\" width=\"1016\" height=\"681\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In terms of taking nudes to sext to a partner, you want to make sure you feel good about yourself. Being turned on is a bonus, of course, and you should make sure the setting looks nice. <i>(Move the pile of laundry off your bed.)\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Warm lamp light is way sexier than overhead lights, so consider a small lighting upgrade if needed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Even if you know your partner wants your nudes and has offered consent, checking in to make sure they can open your image discreetly is a smart move for both of you.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Consider what it is you\u2019re sending the reality that someone else will have it in their phone where you have less control over it. You can send more anonymous nudes by taking them closer up and avoiding showing your face or identifying marks like tattoos and substantial birthmarks.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sexting_examples_for_naughty_inspiration\"><\/span>Sexting examples for naughty inspiration<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>To stay inspired, there are a few types of sexting you can engage in. You can focus on desire and they can be about how much you want them and all the things you want to do to them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can focus on praise, and your sexts can be complimenting what they look like, feel like and how good they are at sex.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can focus on fantasy and share what turns you on and pursue learning about all the things that turn them on.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Or, you can go for nostalgia and relive a particularly memorable session you two shared. Slowly sext through all the steamy details so you can both relive it separately but at the same time.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sexting_tips_to_keep_it_exciting\"><\/span>Sexting tips to keep it exciting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image2.png\" alt=\"woman-lying-in-beige-crew-neck-shirt-on-bed\" width=\"1022\" height=\"677\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For the most part, the same tips you apply to keeping sex exciting will also keep sexting exciting. Much like you don\u2019t want to get lost in the same two positions, using the same phrases or compliments or emoji combinations is unimaginative and boring, and so much of the fun of sexting is using your imagination.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ask different questions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Try different times of day or scenarios.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t always send a nude from the same angle.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Also, you don\u2019t want to overdo it. No matter how fun it is, you want to save some pleasure for the real thing, and it\u2019s also good to connect on other things besides sex via text.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_guide_to_sexting_is_just_the_start\"><\/span>A guide to sexting is just the start<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Practice makes perfect! Accepting that you\u2019ll have to be a little vulnerable and always be listening is a great foundation for sexting to supplement and support a robust sex life. 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