{"id":2961,"date":"2023-10-28T07:17:36","date_gmt":"2023-10-28T07:17:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/?p=2961"},"modified":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T17:23:03","slug":"ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/","title":{"rendered":"Ejaculation Etiquette: 5 Things To Avoid During &#038; After Cumming"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1396&#8243;][wbcr_php_snippet id=&#8221;765&#8243;]<br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"986\" height=\"556\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/image1.png\" alt=\"girl-wet-lingerie-rainfall-raining\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><br \/>\n\t\t\tTop posts<br \/>\n\t\t[tptn_list heading=0][wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1386&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>Busting a nut has to be in the top five best feelings. Yet, if you\u2019re not doing it solo, it can\u2019t be just about you. Sex with other people is a very intimate activity that requires care no matter how hot, sloppy, rough or loving it is, and ejaculation is undeniably part of that. <\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-white ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#Ok_But_Why_Is_Ejaculation_Etiquette_Important\" >Ok, But Why Is Ejaculation Etiquette Important?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#Avoid_These_5_Things_During_or_After_Cumming\" >Avoid These 5 Things During or After Cumming<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#1_Dont_cum_inside_her_without_a_heads_up\" >1. Don\u2019t cum inside her without a heads up<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#2_Dont_remove_the_condom_without_telling_her\" >2. Don\u2019t remove the condom without telling her<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#3_Dont_cum_on_her_without_asking\" >3. Don\u2019t cum on her without asking<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#4_Avoid_saying_irrelevant_or_awkward_things_after_cumming\" >4. Avoid saying irrelevant or awkward things after cumming<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#5_After_cumming_dont_be_quick_to_ask_if_they_came_too\" >5. After cumming, don\u2019t be quick to ask if they came too<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/ejaculation-etiquette-5-things-to-avoid-during-after-cumming\/#What_If_You_Messed_Up_Ejaculation_Etiquette\" >What If You Messed Up Ejaculation Etiquette!?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ok_But_Why_Is_Ejaculation_Etiquette_Important\"><\/span>Ok, But Why Is Ejaculation Etiquette Important?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/image4.png\" alt=\"people-man-woman-couple-lingerie\" width=\"877\" height=\"515\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While climaxing and ejaculating don\u2019t necessarily always come together, for men they usually do. And because of that, minimally, you\u2019re going to end up with semen somewhere. This matters because as good as it feels for you, depending on where it goes, it could lead to pregnancy, passing an STI, or more simply, cleaning up an unexpected mess (watch out eyes and hair). Realistically, you should be using a condom anyways, and when you do, there\u2019s less etiquette to be worried about. You cum in the condom and throw it out. The end.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But, for situations when you\u2019re not practicing safe sex, etiquette around ejaculation is important whether it\u2019s a long term partner or someone whose last name you don\u2019t know. Being aligned about things in the bedroom will just make for a more enjoyable experience and better sex and where you cum is included in that. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Avoid_These_5_Things_During_or_After_Cumming\"><\/span>Avoid These 5 Things During or After Cumming<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/image2.png\" alt=\"naked-couple-on-the-floor\" width=\"877\" height=\"593\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably have a pretty one track mind building up to busting your nut. So, before that you\u2019ll want to familiarize yourself with these five things to minimize accidents and maximize pleasure. This is what to do before and after cumming.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Dont_cum_inside_her_without_a_heads_up\"><\/span>1. Don\u2019t cum inside her without a heads up<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The biggest no-no of ejaculating with a partner is to never, ever, ever cum inside them without consent particularly if they have a uterus. Obviously, this is exactly how babies are made, and that requires a much larger conversation than simply where to cum that is truly impossible to have in the heat of the moment.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Equally as serious, a child and an STI are both something that could potentially be with each of you for life. There\u2019s nothing light, fun or casual about such a substantial decision that you should ever take away someone\u2019s ability to make on their own \u2013 and with you \u2013 without addressing it before you put your penis in her vagina.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>However, not cumming inside her also includes her mouth or anus. Ejaculation etiquette rule number of not cumming inside of her includes all of her. While she may not get pregnant from taking your load in her mouth or butt, it\u2019s still important to ask before you ejaculate inside any of her.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This isn\u2019t to say you can never do it. You need to talk about it first.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Dont_remove_the_condom_without_telling_her\"><\/span>2. Don\u2019t remove the condom without telling her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes, we know condoms can break, roll up, can be uncomfortable and dull senses (invest in the good ones), but under no circumstances should you remove the condom without telling your partner. Even if you plan to pull out or not cum inside her, taking it off without consent is deceitful and can be considered dangerous. This is called stealthing. It\u2019s sexual assault and <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/6263384\/netherlands-stealthing-consent\/#:~:text=In%20the%20U.S.%2C%20California%20became,perpetrators%20directly%20in%20civil%20court.\">illegal in some states.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Additionally, you put each of you at risk for STIs and unplanned pregnancy. If something happens with the condom, pause, let your partner know and take the time to grab another one or discuss a plan of action to move forward.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Dont_cum_on_her_without_asking\"><\/span>3. Don\u2019t cum on her without asking<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>While there\u2019s far less risk of STI or pregnancy involved, cumming on her still requires consent. Getting consent would require you talking about this beforehand, and it can be in a very sexy way if you handle it correctly.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can lead with your desires or fantasies and say things like, \u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about cumming on your [insert body part]. Does that turn you on at all?\u201d Or, you can open it up for more of a discussion by asking if anyone has ever cum on their tits or ass or where ever and if they\u2019d be into it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Or, you put your partner in the driver seat. Ask them what they\u2019d like you to do with your cum or where they want you to cum. Make them the boss, and let them call the shots. You can say something like, \u201cI want to know where you want me to finish. What would be hottest for you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Even after these discussions take place, your partner is within their right to change their mind. Consider letting them know when you\u2019re about to cum. If you can manage, ask them where within the moment.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Avoid_saying_irrelevant_or_awkward_things_after_cumming\"><\/span>4. Avoid saying irrelevant or awkward things after cumming<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Enjoy. The. Moment.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Do not immediately pick up your phone. Do talk about something unsexy as work or responsibilities directly after you finish.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t immediately barrage them with questions about your performance. Let yourselves breathe.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can, however, give compliments.\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\u201cYou looked so hot when you\u2026\u201d\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\u201cIt felt so good when you\u2026\u201d\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\u201cYou look so relaxed. Do you need anything?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Stay present even after you\u2019ve finished. Lay next to each other. Cuddle. Unwind. Just don\u2019t put your foot in your mouth.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_After_cumming_dont_be_quick_to_ask_if_they_came_too\"><\/span>5. After cumming, don\u2019t be quick to ask if they came too<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Asking if they came is at the top of the list of things not to say immediately after finishing. If you have to ask, it\u2019s likely they didn\u2019t.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Further, you should also have a conversation about what pleasure looks like for them, how they enjoy sex and how they like to climax before you even have sex. This way you\u2019ll have the keys and be able to accomplish it together before you finish. You\u2019ll also know if they don\u2019t typically orgasm from penetration or the best ways to get them there.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Putting in the legwork beforehand helps to avoid an awkward convo after. If you know she didn\u2019t and you know how she will climax, after you\u2019ve finished you can always ask if she\u2019d like to keep going. Just because you came doesn\u2019t mean your mouth and hands don\u2019t work. <\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_If_You_Messed_Up_Ejaculation_Etiquette\"><\/span>What If You Messed Up Ejaculation Etiquette!?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/image3.png\" alt=\"couple-in-bed-quarrel\" width=\"877\" height=\"702\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What if you\u2019re reading this after you\u2019ve already had horrible ejaculation etiquette? You\u2019ll want to apologize first. Secondly, you\u2019ll want to address how you could\u2019ve handled it differently. And, lastly, you\u2019ll want to ask them how you can be more aligned for next time, if there is a next time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sex is fun and can be messy in both good and bad ways. The most important thing is to keep communicating through each experience to learn your partners and yourself better. Every person and nearly every session has the potential to be different, so getting comfortable with conversations around ejaculation etiquette is important for the future of your sex life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sign up for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instabang.com\/\">instabang.com<\/a> and practice talking about it with all the different partners you\u2019ll find. <\/p>\n<p><br \/>\n\t\t\tTable of contents<br \/>\n\t\t[wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;684&#8243;]Similar articles[the-post-grid id=&#8221;75&#8243; title=&#8221;second&#8221;][wbcr_snippet id=&#8221;1594&#8243;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are major do\u2019s and don\u2019t\u2019s around cumming \u2013 ejaculation etiquette. 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