<\/span><\/h3>\nThis requires honesty with yourself. If you\u2019re looking for bragging rights, a notch on your belt or simply the ability to say you\u2019ve done it, it\u2019s probably not the right time to have a threesome. Other people\u2019s desires, feelings and lives are involved and your reasons should reflect that.\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re looking to gain new perspectives and further explore sexual dynamics while also practicing the communication and emotional requirements in sexual relationships, a threesome might be a good way to do that.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>2. What are your boundaries around sexual acts during the threesome?\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\nReflect on what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. This includes sexual activities, emotional involvement, communication during and after the experience and if you\u2019re open to MFF, FMM, FFF and\/or MMM. You should also take protection and STI prevention and what that looks like for you into consideration.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>3. Will you get jealous?<\/span><\/h3>\nAre there places within your relationship where you find yourself feeling jealousy? What are those circumstances? You need to get down to the root of any jealousy that exists. It can be about the attention they receive or when someone else pursues them, either way it\u2019s important to rectify that. You\u2019ll be present while someone else is also having sex with them, and ideally, in order to be happy for them receiving pleasure during your threesome, jealousy can\u2019t exist.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>4. Can you have a threesome sober?<\/span><\/h3>\nWhile you may not need to do this sober, you should be able to have a threesome \u2013 or any sex \u2013 without liquid courage or another mind-altering substance. If there\u2019s apprenhension about having a threesome sober, reflect on what the fear is that requires drinking or drugs. If you need it to connect to one person, you should definitely reconsider your desire to sexually connect to two at the same time.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>5. Would you be ok if your partner asked for it again?<\/span><\/h3>\nIt\u2019s also important to consider your own self-esteem. Be mindful of how this experience could impact your self-perception and self-worth. Consider whether you might feel empowered, insecure, or conflicted afterward. Realistically you won\u2019t know until you\u2019re there, but it\u2019s important to consider how you\u2019ll feel after and if it\u2019s just a one time thing or not.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>6. Will you be able to communicate before, during and after the threesome?<\/span><\/h3>\nLastly, ask yourself if you are able to communicate all of this effectively to the others involved. Make sure you can openly express your thoughts, desires, and concerns with everyone participating before, during and after the threesome. It doesn\u2019t have to be perfect, of course, but you should be prepared to try to go through this experience with the others involved.\u00a0<\/p>\n
<\/span>If You\u2019re In A Relationship, Consider This Before A Threesome\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\nIf you want to have a threesome with your partner and a third, ask yourself if you\u2019re comfortable talking about it within your relationship. If you\u2019re not comfortable bringing the idea to your partner, you are not ready to have one either.\u00a0<\/p>\n
These are some questions to start the conversation with your partner:\u00a0<\/p>\n
\n- How do you feel about threesomes and have you had one?<\/li>\n
- Would that be something you\u2019d be open to trying with me?<\/li>\n
- What does your ideal threesome look like for you?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
The goal is simply to learn their feelings, preferences and boundaries before you even decide. This can be an ongoing conversation and doesn\u2019t have to be decided on in this initial conversation. There needs to be a true shared desire and interest in having a threesome, and when it comes to potential jealousy, you\u2019ll want to discuss what that could look like for both of you.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Once you\u2019ve determined you\u2019re on the same page, it\u2019s worthwhile to do some research together. You can watch threesome porn and share what you each like, are open to, dislike and are not interested in. This itself can be a fun process to share together.<\/p>\n
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